Lubricants??? Do you need them??
April 3, 2009
toylady
Tags: advice column, couples, dating, divorce, fantasy, foreplay, love, lubricant, lust, marriage, marriage counseling, orgasms, pre-marital counseling, relationships, romance, sex
It’s easier than you think to introduce lubricant to your sex life. It can be looked at as a novelty, both fun and seductive, so try to get a little playful about it. Set the stage — tell your partner as he’s leaving in the morning that you’ll have a surprise for him that night, or send a suggestive e-mail to him during the day to build anticipation.
Lubricant makes an enjoyable in-the-moment surprise, too. It’s great for enhancing foreplay as well as sex. Rather than waiting until you need it, try applying some lubricant to your partner manually right in the beginning — your partner will enjoy the sensuality of this approach, and it makes for a more seamless sexual experience rather than waiting until it’s time for penetration to stop and put it on. You also can apply some on yourself during foreplay. Let your partner watch you as you self-stimulate, even if it’s just for a few moments. Then you’ll both be revved up and ready to go.
An erotic massage is another great way to start using lubricant. Pick one that doubles as a slick moisturizer. Sometimes the feeling of slippery skin can make sex more sensual and exciting.
Whatever method you choose, don’t be afraid to experiment. Trying new things is what keeps your sex life fresh and fun — why not break out of the routine starting tonight?
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